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August 16, 2010
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11-year-old tackles bullying from the top

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President Obama receives 65,000 letters a week.  He has made it a practice to read 10 every day and he personally responds to a handful.  In March, 2010, he received a letter from 11-year-old Ziainey Stokes, a fifth-grader from Pennsylvania.

Ziainey kept up with the news on TV and in the newspaper.  After reading about a young girl who committed suicide after being bullied excessively, she decided to write her letter.  “It made me feel sad.  She took her life because of other kids.  She didn’t get shot or anything like that.  She killed herself because of other kids bullying her.”

Ziainey and mom Zina -- Photo by Jonathan Yu

Ziainey told the President that kids at her school were being bullied and how it wasn’t right.  In fact, she had been the victim of bullying over several years to the point where her grades slipped and she became despondent.   Ziainey wanted the President, Vice-President or someone to talk to the kids at her school and tell them that it “didn’t matter what you look like, or the color of your skin, you can’t treat people bad.”  Ziainey took it upon herself to start an anti-bullying organization at school and got her classmates on board to help others find their voice. 

The President wrote in response “Your letter demonstrates a desire to change the culture of your classroom as well as your community.”  Ziainey plans to take her message to kids and parents in other schools.

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Judge Tom is the founder and moderator of AsktheJudge.info. He is a retired juvenile judge and spent 23 years on the bench. He has written several books for lawyers and judges as well as teens and parents including 'Teen Cyberbullying Investigated' (Free Spirit Publishing) and 'Every Vote Matters: the Power of Your Voice, from Student Elections to the Supreme Court' (Free Spirit Publishing). In 2020, the American Bar Association published "Cyberbullying Law," the nation's first case-law book written for lawyers, judges and law students. When he's not answering teens' questions, Judge Tom volunteers with the American Red Cross and can be found hiking, traveling and reading.

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